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24 avril

歡樂谷

今天在家裡看電影---是一部關於歡樂谷的劇情。
一對兄妹跑到電視劇裡去,接著改變了一向黑白的電視劇。
覺得這部電影還滿有激勵人心的作用。
只要是鍾於自己的人都可以擁有彩色的人生…
 
19 avril

誤會你了---蒙娜麗莎

本來今天早上要去運動,不過一上網就來不及。
所以順便來寫一下我的讀書收穫。
 
這個收穫滿有趣的,
昨天我在教室讀書,一開始還興致勃勃,後來就開始陷入昏迷狀況。
我試著去找出使我昏迷的點,但是沒有成功。忍不住請輔導員來協助我。
她輕輕走了過來,問我"那裡讀得最好",我晃神地指指教材的某一處;
她再問,"有沒有那一個字不懂?" 。我如果知道就不會昏迷了",我回答。
她隨口一問"什麼是蒙娜麗莎"。
我心想這還不簡單,"就是達文西畫的,而且是畫他朋友的女人。現在放在巴黎。"
她說:"很好,那什麼是"蒙娜(Mona)"
我:"不就是名字嘛!蒙娜.麗莎"
她笑著說,你有查後面的字彙表嗎?看一下。
 
我聽話地把書後面的字彙表翻開,出現了這一段文字
 
…"蒙娜(Mona)是義大利文"小姐或女士"的意思"……
 
我才發現,麗莎小姐,我錯叫你20年…
了解這個字之後,居然就醒了。
 

你憂鬱是應該的

這一篇文章是轉載自一位醫師。
 
曾和薛醫生有工作上的往來,他是一位很有趣的人。
 
他的演講是國台英並用,非常符合台灣人的口味。
 
最近他會北上來辦一場"快樂父母研討會",想要改善親子關係的人,來報名吧。
可以減少親子衝突,逢兇化吉,好處多多。
 
轉貼取自他的部落格的文章,與大家分享

你憂鬱是應該的

 
17 avril

工作是場遊戲?

每次我都會不定期地收到" tip for success"寄來的小文章,
每次讀來都有不同的收穫。
或許來辦個研習班好了,我可以把英文翻一翻,
讓大家一起來讀一起用。
恩恩…這是個不錯的主意…
 
 
這次寄來的是Work is a Game(工作是場遊戲)

"Any job is a game." "A game consists of freedoms, barriers and purposes." -- L. Ron Hubbard from The Problems of Work
("任何工作都是一場遊戲" "遊戲包含自由、障礙和目標。"---L. 羅恩 賀伯特 取自 工作的問題)

Yes, your job is a game! Making money is a game. Succeeding in life is a game. And it can be as fun as playing a card game, a football game or a video game.

If you look at your job as a game, you become more successful. You win more often if you understand and work on the three parts of a game: FREEDOMS, BARRIERS and PURPOSES.

Three Parts of a Game


FREEDOMS are opportunities to succeed. Anything that helps you win the game are freedoms. Examples: your education, your hard work and the support you get from others.

BARRIERS are the problems you must solve or get through to win the game. They include the rules, problems and competitors.

PURPOSES include the goals, the accomplishments and the rewards.

For example, In a football or soccer game, if you are running down the field, and someone tries to stop you, he is a BARRIER. Your strong legs, teammates and the open field are your FREEDOMS. If you get past the person, you will score a goal which is your PURPOSE.

When you are trying to get a good job, the BARRIERS may include the other people who want that same job, your poor work history or your lack of experience.

The FREEDOMS that help you get the job include your charming personality, your honesty and your education.

Your PURPOSES may be to earn respect, do something useful and make money.

Like winning a football game, if you get the job, you feel great! You won!

But if you do not win the game because you do not get the job, you feel unhappy. You lost.

Three Steps to Winning

Because you know the parts of a game, you can improve your chances of winning.

1. First of all, if you wish to win the game of work, you cannot get upset about the BARRIERS. Barriers are included in all games.

For example, if you were a football player, you would not get mad because the other team showed up (a barrier) or because the referee enforced a rule (another barrier). You would not run away nor make up your own rules.

You would get into the football game, play by the rules and try to beat the other team with your talents and skill (freedoms).

The same thing applies to work. For example, if you are looking for a job, you do not get upset if something gets in your way. You have simply run into a barrier. You find another place to apply for a job. You do not give up.

If you dislike a rule at work, you still need to follow the rule because the rule is part of the game. Skilled players follow the rules. Successful business people comply with the government's rules (laws). You can try to get a bad rule changed, but until it is changed, you follow the rule.

If you do not get the raise or promotion you want, you persist. You find a better approach. You change your strategy.

If you own a business that is getting worse, you find the real barriers and attack them. You get smarter than the problems.

Whenever you lose, you go back to the chalk board and figure out a new plan. You do not beat up the competitor or cheat. Instead, you figure out a way to follow the rules and win the game, despite the barriers.

2. Next, concentrate on the PURPOSE. Have you ever seen a football player run to the wrong end of the field? He forgot his purpose!

The same thing can happen at work. You forget why you are there. You are not moving toward a goal.

What is your purpose at work? Maybe you want to do a good job or make a lot of money. Maybe you want to provide extraordinary service or be the best in your profession.

To win the game of work, you need a purpose and you need to follow that purpose.

If you have no purpose or you forget your purpose, you make no progress. You make bad decisions. You do the wrong things. You lose the game.

When you have a clear purpose and put everything you have into that purpose, and never give up, you win the game.

3. Finally, work on your FREEDOMS. You improve your current freedoms and add new ones until you win the game of work every day.

So what are your freedoms at your work?

Your mental strength is one freedom. Just as you exercise your body to build your strength for a football game, you train your mind to do your job better than ever. You go to school. You do courses. You read books. You constantly learn.

Another freedom in a game is your team. You get them to help you. If you get mad at a teammate, he won't want to back you up. If you help your teammates, they support you.

To win a game, you listen to your coach. Who are your work coaches? Perhaps your boss, your parents, a successful friend, a consultant or a financial advisor. Your coaches can be everyone who wants to help you. Listen to them.

Anything you do to prepare for the game is a freedom. For example, if you eat well and get a good night's sleep, you do a better job than if you stay up all night drinking.

Mental alertness is also an important freedom in the game. This means you stay in the present. If you are running a machine while thinking about your date last night, you might break the machine or hurt yourself. The better your concentration, the better you play the game.

Your Game Strategy

Work out your game plan to success right now with these steps.

1. Write down your PURPOSES for working. Why are you there? What do you want to accomplish?

2. List all the BARRIERS. What do you dislike about your work? What gets in your way to accomplishing your purposes? What is not going well?

3. Make a list of all your FREEDOMS. What do you like about your work? What makes it worthwhile? What is going well?

4. Go back through each list. Add more purposes, more barriers and more freedoms. Make sure every part of the game is on the list. Just sorting out these three parts of a game can give you a boost of excitement to win your game.

5. Work out how you can stay on your purposes all of the time. If you are not excited to accomplish your purposes, consider more interesting purposes, bigger purposes or more beneficial purposes.

6. Work out how to handle the barriers. Sometimes you can dance around the barrier, use a different solution, or even turn the barrier into a freedom!

7. Work out how to strengthen the freedoms on your list and add even more freedoms.

8. Continue to work on all three parts of your game until you are winning as never before.

Source:
www.tipsforsuccess.org

Copyright © 2006 TipsForSuccess.org. All rights reserved. Grateful acknowledgment is made to L. Ron Hubbard Library for permission to reproduce selections from the copyrighted works of L. Ron Hubbard."
16 avril

終於

我終於把頭髮留長了
其實,在別人眼裡這是一件不能再小的事。
不過,在我身上可說是一大步。
媽媽說,我終於比較像一個女孩子,看起來比較柔順。
 
終於,在一段長長的路途之後,
我可以愈來愈像自己。
可以不用為了證明什麼,而改變自己的原貌。
 
終於,有一個長髮披肩的joyce。